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The Convocation Speech That Didn’t Make It

I’m thrilled to share that I’ll be delivering the convocation speech at my alma mater, the University of Illinois School of Liberal Arts and Sciences, on December 21st, 2024! It’s an honor to address the winter graduating class of 2024, and I’ve been putting a lot of thought into what I want to say.

I’ve gone through many drafts of my speech and am excited about the message I’ll share. I even collaborated with a professional speechwriter on one version, but ultimately decided it wasn’t right. Although well-written, it felt more like a lecture than the inspiring message I wanted to leave to the graduates.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the speech I didn’t use.

Convocation Speech: The Canvas of Purpose: Dreams and Diligence


University of Illinois Winter Convocation, December 21, 2024

Good evening, esteemed faculty, devoted parents, and, most importantly, the inspiring graduates of the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, the bright torchbearers of our future.

It is a profound honor to stand before you today and celebrate this incredible milestone. We gather today not just to celebrate your years of hard work but to honor the resilience and determination that brought you to this moment. Every late-night study session, every challenge you faced, and every triumph, big or small has led to this defining achievement.

While today is a celebration of your accomplishments, I also want to share a powerful lesson that I have found is integral not just to my personal life but also to my work which has made it possible to stand before you today, and that is the power of dreaming and diligent work. In product management, success often hinges on striking a delicate balance between being a dreamer and a doer. The most successful product managers dare to envision what seems impossible, they dream of innovation, imagine transformative solutions, and see opportunities where others see obstacles.

A life of purpose always starts with being a Dreamer. Dreams are the seeds of every great achievement. Dreams are the sparks that ignite revolutions, the blueprints for breakthroughs, and the foundation of every meaningful life. They demand our courage, energy, and willingness to navigate uncharted territory. As Lawrence of Arabia once said: “All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.” Graduates I challenge you, to be the dangerous men and women who act on their dreams with open eyes.

However, we must acknowledge that dreaming with open eyes isn’t passive. It is active, requiring you to be behind the wheel, steering your vision toward reality. This is where diligence comes in, transforming visions into reality, Dreams are the seeds but they flourish only with diligence. Diligence is a word that has enthralled me, In Latin, the word diligentia means “carefulness” or “attentiveness.” It comes from the verb diligere, meaning “to love” or “to value highly.” In Greek, the concept of diligence is often tied to the word spoudé, which conveys the idea of earnestness, zeal, and urgency. Looking at these spectacular roots of the word diligent, diligent work therefore means you must Love and value your dream highly enough to pursue it with attentiveness, zeal, and urgency.

I learned this lesson first-hand from my parents. They came to the United States with a simple dream to create a future for their children and they worked tirelessly, sacrificing comforts to build something greater than themselves. And ultimately their sacrifice and diligence are the reason I stand here today. That is the transformative power of dreams, they ripple outward, touching lives beyond yourself.

But, to truly pursue your dreams with attentiveness, zeal, and urgency, you must first ensure they are YOUR dreams. As Dave Chappelle once said, “You have to be wise enough to know when you are living in your dream, and you have to be humble enough to accept when you are in someone else’s dream.”

You stand today as living testaments to the dreams of those who came before you, your parents, professors, and ancestors. Who sacrificed, guided, and believed in your potential. Now it’s your turn to carry the torch and define your dreams.

Ask yourself:

  • What is the dream I’m willing to fight for?
  • What impact do I want to make in the world?

There has never been a time more primed for powerful dreamers and diligent workers. As you step into the world beyond these walls, you step into a world filled with challenges. Knowing that should excite you, Bruce Lee said it best “Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one, for it is in hardship that we find our greatest purpose.” The Challenges of our day demand dreamers to surmount them and I am confident you are that dreamer.

No matter what route your dream takes you on, remember: your path is your unique canvas, your dreams are the paint, and diligent work is the brushstroke that brings your masterpiece to life. Every act of effort, persistence, and care adds depth and meaning to your highly valued vision. Without action, the canvas remains blank, but with diligence, your dreams become a work of art that inspires and impacts the world.

Today I charge you Be the teacher who inspires generations to dream bigger. Be the writer who changes hearts and shapes narratives. Be the social worker who brings hope to the underserved. Be the human rights advocate who challenges injustice. Be the artist who stirs souls and redefines beauty. Be whoever you want to be.

To the parents: this moment is a testament to your sacrifices, love, and unwavering belief in your children. You’ve given them not just an education but the courage to dream bigger and the foundation to succeed. To the professors and administrators: thank you for shaping minds, inspiring growth, and nurturing leaders. Your commitment to their growth is a true reflection of the University’s motto of Learning and Labor.

Graduates, as you leave this ceremony and step into the next chapter of your lives, let your dreams be bold, your work be diligent, and your purpose be unwavering. Be fearless in the face of challenges. Be thoughtful in your actions. And above all, be true to yourself, remembering your unique path is your unique canvas.

Class of 2024, the world awaits your brilliance. Dare to dream boldly, work with unwavering diligence, and leave a legacy that inspires generations. Congratulations